Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Act Like A Lady-Think Like A Man

Here are the questions for Steve Harvey's book. Please feel free to post your comments here.

1. What specific kind of man are you looking for?

2. How do you expect to be persued? Do you want regular phone calls?
Text messages? Dates at least three times a week? Do you want him to
always pick up the tab?


3. What level of commitment do you expect? Do you want an open
relationship? Or to date exclusively? Should it be up for discussion?


4. What kind of financial security do you expect this man to have? Do
you want him to be rich? Do you want him to make more money than
you? Are you okay with a blue-collar worker?


5. Do you want a man who wants kids and is family oriented?

6. Does he have to be religious/spiritual?

7. Do you mind if he's divorced or has kids?

8. Can you help a man build his dream? Can you adapt to his plan?

9. What do you expect of his family? Should you get along with his
mother? Do you care if he doesn't get along with her? Or if his father
was never around?


10. What should he be willing to do to woo you? Should he persue you?
Give you expensive gifts?


11. What are your tru feelings about this book? Do you feel that it has
helped you to anaylze relationships better?


12. What are your perceptions regarding how men need to be treated?

13. Do you feel that there are double standards when it comes to
adapting to the need, wants, and dreams of a man?


14. After reading this book, do you feel confident about your current or
next relationship?


15. Do you feel that Steve's advise provided you with armor and
ammunition for dealing with men on another level?


16. How do you think that you could have implemented some of the
strategies that Steve laid out in past relationships?


17. If you could only take one point from this book to utilize in your next
relationship, which point would that be?


18. How does it make you feel to know that men aren't really
interested in you if they don't have their three essential needs lined
up "who they are, what they do, and how much they make"?


19. How did reading this book change your perspective on dating?

20. Do you think you fit into the category of a keeper, or a sports fish?




5 comments:

  1. A real woman is going to get her house in order. The men of today need to shape the f**k up or ship the f**k out and that's real talk.

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  2. I definitely agree. I would say that this is a book that men should read as well as women. I really dont think that this b ook was intended for women who are already in a commited relationship, or who is already married. I feel like it was some very good information presented for a woman who is looking for her soul mate. It gives a good reference for her to use as a gide for making sure that a man has the qualities that she is looking for.

    What I dont like is the fact that Steve uses a lot of generalizations of men that are, from what i've seen of men, not neccessarily true. All men are not alike in what they feel are ways to love or treat a woman. I think it has to do with a way that a man is raised, and by whom he was raised. Men now days are totally different from men from Steve Harvey's generation.

    Overall though it was cool if you need a guide to help you decide what man is best for you.

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